some thinking on relationships
we are always looking for the balance in relationships.
often we find relationships not in equilibrium and think that they are not balanced. well they are balanced as in they have settled to a position. the position is usually not one of equilibrium.
it is much like a see saw. the person who can change the situation with the least amount of effort is the person at the bottom. he is the person in control. responsible for letting the other person enjoy what is commonly seen as the superior more exhilarating position.
this discovery to me is quite comforting.
often we find relationships not in equilibrium and think that they are not balanced. well they are balanced as in they have settled to a position. the position is usually not one of equilibrium.
it is much like a see saw. the person who can change the situation with the least amount of effort is the person at the bottom. he is the person in control. responsible for letting the other person enjoy what is commonly seen as the superior more exhilarating position.
this discovery to me is quite comforting.
posted by lemontree @ 11:22 AM
3 Comments:
Hi tanya
tried the link to your blog but couldn't make it
can you please leave the url
thanks
Hi...was just scrolling thru various links... so reached on to relationships...
Interesting topic to write about but too difficult to write about..
..quite agree with Tanya..for every give there is a take...for how long one can just be a giver..it feels nice to be a giver but reciprocation from the other side is just so necessary for a relation to work..though quite difficult to handel..but each one of us wants to be in that
"Special Relation"... nothing compares to the feeling of "love" feeling of "being loved & cared"&iam sure each one of us experience this feeling..once or may be more than once...some are able to enjoy the relation and .. & some have to let it go..(i dont want to go into the reasons).. but all said n done..one feels on the top of the world.. when "love happens" but i dont have words to explain..the feeling of lost love..
nevermind.. just a thought.."expectation kills JoY".. so just dont expect too much out of every relation...cheers guys!
this 2 shall pass...
hi anon
my point is that the balance you enjoy in a relationship is a choice you have made- its not by chance
but ya its only as much of a choice as 'matters of the heart' can be ;)
thanks for visiting
and btw did you come here via endless ??
just putting the pieces together
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