tujhe dekh dekh sona, tujhe dekh kar hai jagna.......
still playing in my head. from last evening.
wondering can it all really be this simple.
is it the feeling or the person. am i confusing something.
and then is it even important. why can i not stop over analysing everything and just flow with the moment.
or is it that we analyse because we are afraid to flow.
posted by lemontree @ 3:18 PM
9 Comments:
I do wonder too what would happen if I stopped over-analysing everything. Things about other people too... Sometimes i think i'm just too jobless :p
I dont think its cos we're afraid to flow...It goes much deeper than that!
I replay ever event and incident until I wear out. Doesn't do much good. I wish I could relax and go with the flow. I'd be easier.
well, you know what they say: i think, therefore i analyse, project into the future, read between lines, build up multiple scenarios, skip the moment while it's happening cuz i'm busy thinking about it!
i need to call you!!
V: ouch and so true. it just like this lil brain just doesnt stop . goes on and on and on.
goldenibb: i can go with the flow for most part but when it comes to the one eluding thing that really matters i wish i could just relax
pink: well put girl! the beginning reminded me of a t shirt i wore through the better part of B Scool
"I think. Therefore I am Single"
and now i wonder why but why would i wear such a t shirt. hehe
Nah! It's really no fun if every little thing he says/ doesn't say/ does/ doesn't do is not analysed in agonizing detail with one's girlfriends! :)
To me, not analyzing is when I know that the dude doesn't interest me at all! :) If he doesn't make me wonder... what is the point, I say! :))
'Over analyzing' - it's the only thing I know to do! The best part is that in spite of the incessant (sometimes bordering on obsessive) analysis, I still (usually) go back and do exactly what my impulse says i ougta do : p
Pink knows about this horrible trait of mine...
Pink's Publicist
ditty: exactly .
and so over 28 years have a pool of girlfirends (touch wood) and the subject of ananlysis making quick exits. don't have much time on hands - have to give girlfriends quick minute by minute updates- thats most of the fun ;)
pink's publicist: even worse is what my sister and my best friend do- they dwell and dwell and dwell and ask me for advice and then do the exact opposite of what i proposed :(
and that makes them really happy
I got a little curious when I saw the post title in the archives...
Hehehe... I too think and think and take advice from sis and friends, and later I go and do something that we had not planned or thought of at all. And then, I come back, give updates to sis and friends once again, and ask for their advice on what to do next. They usually just roll their eyes, give me their whats-the-use look, but sit down and start thinking with me anyway. Fun!:)
hey bharti
the fact that you commented on this post took me down memorylane.
and all are gurls always have to oblige. thats the law.
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