stayingafloat

the 23 year me would have called me psychotic, but the 28 year old me and the 16 year me is in love with the me today

Sunday, March 18, 2007

From the archives


The other day I was asked if you were dependent on me. And my immediate response was 'yes, ofcourse, sure.'

And now I, 'the independent one' reflect. When I miss: my advisory role, from career direction to word selection, my constantly being on standby 'just incase' and my imagined veto power on your any and every deicison. Did I, the person who subtly gaurded her independence, not become the one more dependent. Dependent on your dependence.

14 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

habits they say are our worst excuses

9:37 AM  
Blogger lemontree said...

didi (shonali): someone has definitely evolved humm. is it the rub off of the blog you have been reading? lol. seriously neat comment.

11:49 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

you bet , u think you were the only smart one huh. rakesh is rubbing on me heh

10:15 PM  
Blogger Iris said...

Let's call it interdependence, my frend:-)

6:24 PM  
Blogger Karan said...

Keep writing! ss a good habit.

4:08 AM  
Blogger The Bride said...

Since you were nice enough to drop by AND leave a comment will confess the error - mispelling in the name of a bank in the headline in an advertorial which they payed for. Really obvious thing but we all missed it.

7:34 AM  
Blogger lemontree said...

seashells: :)

didi (shonali): control. this blog is meant to be 'clean'. hehehehehehe.

iris: how true! and so it shall be.

karan (ten): heh! someone has changed his pen name

the bride: lol :)

4:43 PM  
Blogger Karan said...

"karan (ten): heh! someone has changed his pen name"

Yeah :( Wanted to change it to (end). Added first entry to the blog ironically.

2:14 AM  
Blogger that girl in pink said...

that was very deep lemon. who's the dependent one and who's the strong one, it's all so relative eh?

this one's from the archives?

12:24 PM  
Blogger Jenn said...

I guess the last need we give up is the need to be needed.

And then, detachment?

What a pipe dream.

9:47 PM  
Blogger The Gypsy said...

Simple and profound, innit?

6:01 PM  
Blogger that girl in pink said...

am i being unreasonable in asking for a new post?

11:40 PM  
Blogger lemontree said...

Karan: lol on (end)- incidentally more mysterious than (ten)

Pink: it is all relative. and it is subjective as well. each person may have his/her own perspective on who the dependent/independent one in the relationship is.

Jenn: so true! you said it better than me!

Gypsy: Thank you!

Pink: lol!

11:49 AM  
Blogger Deliciously Alive said...

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4:27 PM  

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